A Short Relationship

Lorraine Mikaelson
3 min readMay 22, 2023

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One remarkable advice that I got from reading books is being vigilant with your partner’s undeviating behavior and personality. This act would help you determine the red flags or substandard signs in your relationship. Thus, this would aid you in avoiding bad circumstances that could lead to self-lost and confusion. You better evaluate your relationship every single day for you to avoid pain and heartbreaks. As I’ve mentioned before, do not turn a blind eye every single suspecting behavior that he would manifests.

So, how would you know that your partner is done with you? To know more, I created an ideal guide that would definitely help you. Check this one!

1. Devising each date.

This is the first substantial step that you should do. You should ask yourself if you’re really honest of what you want. We don’t want to rock the boat. But the truth is that the waters get choppy when we don’t express ourselves. When you don’t voice your needs, you end up in situations that aren’t good for you. You then have to learn to control your anger because you have been bottling it up. You also prevent a man from truly knowing who you really are, and you don’t give him the opportunity to meet your needs.

2. Notice the changes manifested by your date.

Even if you’re in a long term relationship, love should be ‘two-way’. It is not right if you’re the only one who gives effort and time, your partner should also do the same. If you frequently observe this in your relationship, there’s a possibility that your partner is confused and is not ready for this kind of relationship. Find someone who deserves you on this website. Join for free now!

3. An imperturbable date.

Even if you’re in a long term relationship, love should be ‘two-way’. It is not right if you’re the only one who gives effort and time, your partner should also do the same. If you frequently observe this in your relationship, there’s a possibility that your partner is confused and is not ready for this kind of relationship.

4. You notice that this love turns to lack of interest.

Even an individual who is in a relationship can commit this sin. They no longer feeling passionate love or even falling out of love. Perceiving the relationship to be boring, dull or stagnant is one of the reasons why they decided to cheat. In fact, because of this reason they try to seek love and attention to other person to the point that they didn’t care what their true partner would feel if he/she finds out about his/her affair to someone.

5. You’re not one of his priorities anymore.

Based on research, there are certain mechanisms that make a person feel positive towards a bad relationship. As experts say, it is called “defense mechanism”. In order to feel good about himself he shifts his attention by looking at the positive side of their relationship. There are people who don’t want to give up on love and they believe looking at the great side of love would greatly help them in changing this bad relationship to good one.

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Lorraine Mikaelson
Lorraine Mikaelson

Written by Lorraine Mikaelson

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